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Why Short Breaks Can Be Easier For Kids Than Long Journeys And How To Plan For Every Eventuality

March 16, 2023 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

For some parents, thinking about a flight abroad with their kids is enough to make them feel stressed. Very young children can be unpredictable during travel, and the longer the travel time, the more potential there is for temper tantrums, and need for constant supervision and entertainment.

With some careful planning your holiday has more scope to go smoothly and turn out into a brilliant new experience for everyone. Let’s explore why some types of holidays aren’t suitable for young children, and which ones are better for the younger members of the family.

Long Journeys Can Be Tough On Kids

Very few enjoy long haul flights, they can be uncomfortable, and although some flights may have numerous movies and tv show options on their in-flight entertainment system, they can get boring. Especially when you are travelling 8 hours or more and get tired of staring at a screen. Young children may have a particularly difficult time coping with a longer journey and could start getting frustrated in a setting that is both unfamiliar and with minimal stimulation.

Children have shorter attention spans than adults, which is why long journeys can be particularly arduous. Bringing along toys and games can help keep them occupied for a while, but they can eventually get tired of this strategy. Although some parents have an easier time, and manage to get through flights with little incidence, there is no way to know how a young child could react to a long flight. If you want to avoid stressing out yourself, your child, and your fellow passengers, it may be worth considering a trip with a shorter journey time.

Shorter Journeys Are More Manageable

Shorter journeys will be easier for children, although they may still fuss over a situation where they are stationary. The shorter duration means that their attention may be taken by toys, games or tv for the full duration of the flight. Timing is also important, for some booking the journey over your child’s usual naptime slot could mean that they sleep through the trip. However, this might not be a good idea if your child doesn’t like being woken up when they are feeling tired. In this case, choose an earlyish daytime flight.

Keeping Your Kids Safe

Children usually love to play and explore new surroundings, so a holiday could be a thrilling experience for a child. In the midst of the excitement, children could injure themselves, and depending on the severity of the injury, a visit to the hospital could be expensive.

You can protect yourself against a financial set back by buying travel insurance ahead of time. Providers like Staysure offer coverage for medical expenses and cover lost or stolen cash and baggage.

Think Of Kid-Friendly Activities

You might have some ideas for what you want to do during the trip, however your kids will have very different interests and will also need entertainment. For example, young children are less likely to appreciate a detailed historical tour or a visit to a vineyard. It’s important to include them in the trip by gearing some activities towards them. A good option could be a theme or water park, a visit to the beach, or perhaps something else that they will find engaging.

Often, you’ll find that hotels offer child-minding services where you can leave your kids for an evening. There they’ll get to play with other kids and participate in a number of different games and activities while you get some time to yourself.

Conclusion

Taking kids on a long flight or travel journey is never going to go smoothly all the time. If you’re taking your children on holiday, your life will be a lot easier if you head for somewhere closer to home like France or Spain. When you arrive at your destination, keep an eye on your kids as they play and explore, and partake in new activities, while enjoying the break for yourself.

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Correctly Helping Mold The Passionate Interests Of Your Child

November 20, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

Correctly Helping Mold The Passionate Interests Of Your Child

There are almost as many parenting styles as there are parents to have children. Of course, not all are good, or even valid. Many parents that care for raising their child in the most supportive context may grimace when they see beauty pageant parents making their child ‘look beautiful’ and chastising them when they fail to win a competition. We see an overly enthusiastic father trying to live through his son’s or daughter’s sports career, and think that this in itself is terrible parenting. Of course, we cannot know the full story, but having reservations about that can seem right.

 

But while it’s very easy to see just what we do not like in others, especially when it comes to the treatment of children or teenagers, how can we provide a necessary counterpoint, to overcompensate for this by guiding your child in the healthiest possible manner? Perhaps this is best illustrated by how a parent helps their child of about 12-17 consider their future as a late teenager or young adult. At this age, children begin to express an interest in something, and while this can change, interest and passion are two things alway worthy of encouraging.

 

Here’s what healthy handling of this may look like:

 

Do Not Force Them Down That Path

Even if your child finds something incredibly interesting and alluring, there’s no guarantee they will find it that way forever. By all means, be sure to help them explore it, but when you start defining your child by this select interest, you can have a real problem. This is why allowing them to explore that path and giving them a manner in which to appreciate it can be important, but forcing them in that direction is never okay. After all, a child can naturally develop their interests when you also give them time to, not when it becomes something they must do.

 

We can use an example for this, although of course, like most examples, it is not a universal rule. When scheduled to take instrumental lessons at school, it can be that lugging around heavy instruments at school, or having to attend in their lunch break, or being forced to attend band practice can lead them to feel like this interest is being artificially constricted, even if they make progress. But taking them to see an instructor after school in a private setting? They may flourish in that environment where force is not needed.

 

Guide Them Carefully, But Thoroughly

Even when your child or teen finds something interesting, it’s very easy for them to feel disheartened. For example, if they try sports and fail to ever score or adapt in certain ways, or if they struggle to meet a worthwhile challenge, or if they’re just not aware of the best approach going forward, it can be easy for them to feel somewhat as if this is not for them.

 

However, it can also be that looking at the practice in a new light may help them understand the best approach. For example, if they wish to learn martial arts, perhaps judo is not something they enjoy. However, Karate might be something they love, or maybe even boxing gives them that tactical interest they’re looking for. It’s okay if they bounce off their interest or struggle with it, as long as they take a thorough approach to it, and you can guide them in this direction.

 

Show Them Their Options

Taking the time to explore their options and potential routes forward may motivate them to take this up as a hobby they love, rather than something they feel is a ‘side interest’. For example, it might amaze your teen to understand that US pilot studies and aviation degrees can be applied for, and that the best services help educate you as to your options. This is a very real, lucrative career path, and though the entrance requirements are picky and it will take plenty of work, showing your child that this is possible can be all the news they need to make this a real ambition of theirs.

 

After all, isn’t guiding your child, no matter how old, towards something they love and enjoy always the best responsibility of a parent outside of love and protection? Additionally, if they begin to find a lofty goal such as this something to aim at, allow them to feel this is a possibility. It may nurture an ambition they might not have known they had.

 

Invest In Their Interests

Of course, as a parent, it’s important to help your teen invest in the things they love or wish to develop. If a child is showing a very keen interest and dedication learning guitar, for example, driving them to lessons, purchasing them a guitar for their birthday, perhaps helping them bid for that electric guitar and amp on eBay, or allowing them to practice and fail until success night after night is the loving support you give that can nurture their interest.

 

Think of just how many parents have chastised their children for trying to learn an instrument like a violin but playing poorly (as with the case with all beginners). The child will feel disheartened, and unlikely to continue. Who knows if they’ll try and follow a similar passion with as much interest and zeal as before? That would be a tragedy, but unfortunately, it will have happened somewhere the world. Learn from this bad example and understand that there are more important things than not listening to bad violin or its equivalent for an hour each night. Of course, if your child is practising martial arts moves on their younger siblings, that’s another story entirely. There’s nuance here.

 

Encourage & Support Them

Sometimes, a little word of encouragement can be enough to help a child keep at something. Perhaps despite their best efforts their team have failed to win the interschool trophy this year. That’s fine. There are more important things than being successful, such as having good sportsmanship, persevering, training to get better, trying to play as a team, and showing up to practice each day.

 

Encouragement can be a very worthwhile approach should you apply it in the right way. Of course, be sure that this is rational. If you praise your child for everything they do, they will not feel like they tried, or that they need to try. If you praise them for when they do try, or when they go all out, or when they go for something new, that shows you are watching them correctly, and are genuinely happy for them. There’s nothing quite like a child feeling as though they’re making their parents proud, and so giving them that compliment when necessary can help them take that extra step on the journey and see something through, provided it is well placed.

 

Allow Them To Change Or Try Something New

It might be that your child has played the violin for the last five years, and have played at many local concerts. Perhaps they have achieved a certain competence and skill in their grading. Perhaps now they are happy with their progress, and wish to try something new. Allow them to do that, and to start as a beginner all over again. Do not force them on one path. After all, they will be a beginner in so many areas of life and have to learn that it’s important for them to internalize those lessons now.

 

With this advice, you’re certain to help correctly mold the passionate interests of your child.

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Tips for Prepping Your Kid’s New Room

August 22, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

Tips for Prepping Your Kid’s New Room

However much you don’t want them to grow up, there’s inevitably going to come a time when your kids are going to want to swap their pink painted walls or Thomas the Tank Engine cabin bed for posters of their favorite bands and furniture that isn’t painted in primary colors. Much like ripping a plaster off a wound, it’s often best to go in and do a makeover on their bedroom, transforming it all in one go rather than replacing things piecemeal.

Don’t reject their ideas

Tweens and young teens often have very clear ideas about what they want their grownup bedroom to look like, and the chances are it’s not going to be an exact match for what you have in mind. Rejecting their ideas out of hand isn’t the answer; instead, you need to be prepared to compromise, which will also give your child some useful knowledge on using negotiation skills.

As an example, one of the common points of contention between parents and children is when the child wants their room to be painted black. Unless you’re a bit of a goth yourself, you probably don’t want your kids to be living in a room that resembles a gloomy cave. However, there’s no reason why they couldn’t have a black feature wall that would be easy enough to paint over when they got tired of it, or they could choose soft furnishings in black, which will look stylish anyway but are easy to change when the time comes.

Think about the layout

When you and your child are designing the layout, make sure there’s space for a full-size bed and a study area. If they like their games, you could make a separate gaming area or simply design the study area, so it’s dual purpose. Decide on the bedroom essentials first, then see what space you have left for other features. There are some extremely clever space-saving storage solutions available now that can give your child everything they need even in a small bedroom.

Involve your child

Make sure your child is involved at every stage, from planning and design to starting work, decorating, and getting everything back in. For one thing, they’re more likely to appreciate the effort involved, and for another, they need to feel invested in how their room looks. It’s important that your child likes their room and feels safe and secure. They’re just starting out on some of the most testing few years of their life, and having a sanctuary is going to be very important for them.

Declutter

Once you’ve decided on the layout and décor, you can start taking everything out of the room ready for the makeover to begin. This is a great opportunity for some serious decluttering, but make sure you work with your child, so you don’t throw out anything particularly precious! Toys and clothes that they’ve grown out of can be donated to charity, or you could try selling them to help fund the makeover. Give the empty room a thorough deep clean, and then you’re ready to begin.

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Keep These Things in Mind when Having a Child

July 15, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

Keep These Things in Mind when Having a Child

Having a kid can be a very scary prospect for some people. You are bringing in an entirely new person into the world, and are expected to care for it for around two decades. Despite being a scary commitment, it’s still a wonderful process. There is nothing quite like a parent’s love for their child, as it is truly a magical thing. In addition, being well prepared for having a child can make the entire process much easier and stress free. However, there are many things that potential parents may not prepare for or even know about parenting. Here are some lesser known things that you might want to prepare for before you have a child.

 

Time and Commitment

Having a child requires a lot of time and commitment and could take away from other areas in your life. When they are young they will need to be watched at all times. In addition, they need to be fed, clothed, comforted, cleaned, and put to bed. This is something that will take a lot of time and commitment and will likely require help from your partner or other family members. As the child gets older and goes off to school the time and commitment that is required becomes less, but it is still significant. You will still have to provide them with food and care, but they will gain some semblance of independence. However, as they grow up they will become more involved in school and other extracurricular activities. This means that you’ll have to spend a lot of time doing things like helping them with their homework or driving them to their sporting events. If you’re at a stage in your life where you can’t afford to give up a lot of time quite yet, then perhaps the decision to have a child should wait.

 

Money

One of the biggest things that people don’t realize about having a child is exactly how expensive it is. Raising a child from birth to adulthood could end up costing you hundreds of thousands of dollars. These costs include but aren’t limited to: food, clothing, healthcare, entertainment, and education. In addition, having a child may cause you to take an extended leave from work or even put you entire career on hold. This is something that could be very costly and could have a great effect on your finances. Finally, having a child may cause you to want to move to a bigger home or safer area. You want your child to be set up for success, so you may want to move to an area with less crime or an area closer to a nicer school district. This means you may have to make a change from something like a rural area to a Boston suburb or one of the Cincinnati townhouses. This move could be quite costly and is only a fraction of the total cost of having a child. If you’re not financially stable, then perhaps you aren’t ready for a child.

 

Social Consequences

One thing that you might not consider when having a kid is the social consequences that could come with it. As mentioned before, a child takes a lot of time, effort, and commitment in order to be cared for. This means that the majority of your time will be spent with your family and raising your kids, which in turn will cause your social life to suffer. For some, this won’t be that big of a deal. However, if you’re still relatively young when you have your first child or are an extremely outgoing and social person, then you will likely be in for a drastic change. After having a child, you won’t be able to go out nearly as often, which could lead to some estranged relationships with friends. Friends without kids might become confused or won’t understand the time commitment that proper child care demands.

 

Growing Pains

One of the lesser known things about having a child is the growing pains that accompany it. No, we’re not talking about physical growing pains, but rather the mental pains that come with adapting to your new situation. There is now a completely new person in your life that demands all of your love and attention. You may have to skip sleep or meals just to ensure that your child is healthy or comforted. For a little while you may compare what your life was like before childbirth to what it’s like after childbirth. This is completely normal and does not make you a bad parent! As you adjust and adapt to your new situation you’ll be happier than ever! However, the first few months of adapting can be a little rough, so just be wary about that.

 

Physical Changes

For women, the physical changes that accompany childbirth may be one of the biggest side effects of having a child. Pregnancy can be very rough on your body, and it can trigger a lot of changes. You may find yourself struggling to lose weight that you may have gained after childbirth, simply because the physical changes that have occurred in your body makes it more difficult. In addition, having a child is very stressful which could cause you to turn to things such as overeating to cope. Finally, as discussed before having a child will take a lot of time and commitment from other areas of your life. This means that you likely will not have as much time to exercise and take care of your body as you did previously. All these factors could cause a lot of physical changes in your body, making for a drastic physical change after childbirth.

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Guiding your Kid on the Right Path

June 18, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

Guiding your Kid on the Right Path

As parents, we all want the best for our kids. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, children can make the wrong decisions. While some wrong decisions can be made right again, others can steer a person into a downward spiral that can be hard to get out of. When children reach the teenage years, it can also be more difficult to communicate with them. For a parent who is seeing their child going down the wrong path, it can be a difficult time. They might even blame themselves. However, it is never too late to help a child and get them back on the right path, and this guide gives you some advice on how to do it.

Keep your Cool

It might feel frustrating to watch your child hanging out with the wrong crowd, start taking drugs or show bad behavior at school, but if you lose your temper, you are only likely to widen the gap between you. That is not to say that you shouldn’t show your disapproval, but getting angry is not something that solves problems.

Instead of trying to control your child, control your own actions toward them and set clear boundaries. For example, if you know your child is taking drugs, you can control your input by refusing to give them money and explaining the reason as to why. You could also research a local outpatient rehab and insist they seek the treatment they need. That way, you are showing your child that you care for them while maintaining that their behavior is not acceptable.

Create Consequences

If your child makes a bad decision, such as not coming home until late, make sure you enforce some consequences. For instance, you might refuse to take them on a shopping trip you had planned, or not let them use their games console for the weekend. Again, explain your reasons why, and this should encourage them to think things through and make the right choices. Make sure the consequences you set are fair, or it could cause more tension between you and your child.

Build on the Positives

While you and your child may have some difficulties between you, there will be times when you can make each other laugh, or find some joy in a shared moment. Make the most of these times to strengthen the shared bond you have. Positivity is a powerful tool, both for coping with stress as a parent as well as helping keep a good relationship with your child. A positive mindset will have a good impression on your child, helping them to face and overcome their problems.

As parents, we cannot control the choices our children make. However, we can do our best to guide them, so they make the right choices for themselves. Keep communicating and listening to your child while keeping your boundaries firm. It is tough, but you will get through the trying times together.

 

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4 Ways to Treat Your Kids Today

June 11, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

We do everything that we do for our children, we know that. In most cases, they know that, too, but sometimes it is fun to remind them just how much they mean to you by giving them an extra special treat. Perhaps as a reward for great behavior or working hard at school or being especially kind and helpful or maybe ‘just because’. Along with treating the kids, it is bound to put a smile on your face, so let us share with you 4 ways to treat your kids today.

 

Take a surprise trip

There are few things likely to excite your children more than taking a surprise trip. It often doesn’t matter too much where you actually go, the fun is in the anticipation. Pack a picnic or eat at your favorite restaurant, enjoy the great outdoors or play in the arcades for hours. You know your kids best, so think about what would make them really smile and take them there.

4 Ways to Treat Your Kids Today

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Give a gift

We all know that it is not all about buying gifts, but if you are going to get them a treat, why not make it a useful one? If you are thinking about helpful gifts, we would suggest thinking long term with donating to savings accounts of making a contribution to the college fund, if indeed college is the right thing for your child. In the shorter term, practical buys such as safe cell phones from https://smarty.co.uk/blog/student-sim or paying for them to take up a new activity or class are likely to be well-received and appreciated for much longer than one day.

 

Have a movie date

Is there something showing right now that your children would love to see? Then book those tickets and get going, making time for popcorn on the way in. If not, don’t be put off this one as you can always have a movie date at home. Choose an old favorite DVD to watch or stream the latest release and then snuggle down to watch it together on your couch. Try to make it extra special by getting cinema snacks in ready and turning all of the lights out. Now you are at the cinema!

 

Give them yourself

When was the last time that you said to your kids, ‘I’m all yours’? It can be hard as we juggle so many things, but we all know the benefits of spending quality time with our children, and aside from the benefits to them, it simply makes us happy. So give them the gift of yourself, let them dictate the hour, the afternoon, the day, whatever you can give to them. It can often be surprising what they come up with and you know that you are giving them just what they want, time with you doing whatever they choose. If you have more than one child, it is also great to do this one to one with your kids from time to time.

 

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How to Improve Your Next Family Vacation

April 19, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

The Summer Vacation Technology Contract Every Family needs

When you are raising a family, you will be able to make amazing memories every single day. Some of the most important childhood memories that people treasure, however, happen on family vacations. This is a time when you all get to spend quality time together and bond while having fun somewhere new.

When you consider the importance of family vacations in bringing your family closer together, it becomes apparent that you need to put some real thought into making the trip brilliant. To help you out, this guide is going to give you three of the best ways to improve your next vacation and give your children the chance to make incredible memories.

Travel in luxury by going private

When it comes to planning a vacation, a lot of thought is put into where you decide to go and what you will do there. It is also of vital importance that you think about how you are going to get to your chosen destination. Traveling on the cheap might seem like a good idea, but it can often leave your family feeling over-tired and cranky, meaning your vacation gets off to a bad start.

One of the best alternatives is to look into Stratos Jets Charters and consider getting yourselves a private jet to get you from A to B. This will allow your family to travel in complete comfort and even relax on the journeys.

Know what to look for when it comes to where you stay

Another aspect of planning a vacation which can often get overlooked is the hotel or resort you choose to stay at. This is something people think they should always be trying to save money on, but in actual fact, you need to stay somewhere that caters to all your needs.

By being familiar with the sort of facilities available for families from hotels, you will be able to build a better picture in your mind of what you should go for. When planning a family holiday, trying to choose somewhere that has childcare facilities so that you and your partner are able to have some time alone for a date night. You need to remember, this holiday is as much about you as it is the kids, and you deserve a break.

Planning is your new best friend

You can find helpful tips on how to plan a trip online which can help make the process much easier. By planning out what you plan to do each day, you will be able to keep to your budget and, more importantly, always make sure your children are entertained. You should factor in rainy days, and try to explore as much as possible too.

Nothing can ruin the fun of a vacation more than having your little ones break out in a temper tantrum because they are bored. Try to book your tickets and passes to attractions early to get better deals and maximize the fun on your break.

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Returning To The Fore: Picking Your Career Up Where You Left Off Before Your Children Came Onto The Scene

January 28, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

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In life, you are, as a parent, dedicated to nurturing your children to follow their dreams. Whether you are helping your children stick to their guns, forging their own path in life, and generally encouraging them to do what they want, as far as their career is concerned, we could learn a lot from our own advice. When we are dedicated to our children, we can easily neglect our own needs, especially in a professional sense. Before you had children, you might have been on your own path to career fulfillment, but this had to go on the backburner as you had kids on the way. But as they get older, they don’t need this as much. As such, what’s the best way to pick up where you left off before you had children?

 

Throwing Yourself Into Your Old Career

As you may already be working a job, your options are to start all over again or to throw yourself into your current career. You may have been holding off on applying for those high powered jobs because you didn’t know if you could feasibly do them based on your parental duties. But now, taking an opportunity to go back into your career with new enthusiasm can reinvigorate you. You actually have the time in which to pursue your professional goals. Of course, it’s not as easy as that. And if you are planning your return to the fore after so many years of “coasting”, it’s all about planning your return. It can take a while for you to build up your profile again, but also think about how many years it could take for you to acquire new skills. This is where the next point is integral.

 

Starting Again

Starting all over again can feel like a very intimidating prospect. After all, if you don’t have the experience in a certain sector, and you feel that you are past it, you’ve got a lot of competition up against you. But this is where we can take advantage of being a parent, and spending a lot of time at home because there are so many resources online that we can make the most of. Even in the medical profession, there are DNP FNP programs but you can take while being at home, meaning that you are acquiring the necessary knowledge. As a result, when you start to apply for these roles, you won’t find yourself facing rejection after rejection. Starting again is intimidating, but if you want to do a complete 180-degree turn on your career, you’ve got to acquire the skills necessary. This is, at the very least, an essential.

 

As a parent, we can feel like our children are the priority, especially for the first few years of their life. But, there comes a point where we have to think about our needs as well. We need to pick a career that is fulfilling, makes us feel like we’ve done something at the end of the day, and as such, this will make our life outside of work all the better.

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How To Build Towards A Brighter Future For Your Kids

January 4, 2019 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

How To Build Towards A Brighter Future For Your Kids

Every parent in the world wants the best for their child. This is something that every parent strives for, but it can be hard to know exactly what you should do to help build towards a bright, happy and successful future for your child. There are actually a few steps that you can take right now which will help build towards a brighter future for your children and these steps are highly worth taking if you are able to. It is difficult to predict exactly what the future holds as there is a great deal of uncertainty, but that is not to say that you should not plan ahead.

 

Communicate

First, it is important that you regularly communicate with your child so that you can listen to their hopes and dreams as well as any challenges that they are currently facing. When you can communicate openly with your children about everything, it allows you to gain a better understanding of what they need from you and how you can help.

 

Set A Good Example

Children tend to adopt many aspects of their parent’s behavioral habits through observation, so it is important that you are setting a good example. This will include:

  • Having a good work ethic
  • Being good to other people
  • Regular exercise
  • Eating a healthy diet
  • Smart money management

 

Teach Them Important Life Skills

Following on from this, it is also your responsibility to teach them important life skills, and it is a good idea to do this from a young age. This will include skills such as how to cook for themselves, how to apply for a job, how to drive a car, etc.

 

Savings Account

One of the best steps that you can take as a parent to help your child towards a brighter future is to open a savings account for them. If it is a viable option, you could then make regular contributions towards this to build their future wealth. Additionally, this can be highly effective because it will teach them about how to handle money and the importance of savings. Being smart with money is crucial to success for adults, so it is best to teach them how to manage their money from a young age.

 

Get Your Affairs In Order

You may not want to think about it now, but it is important to get your affairs in order in case anything were to happen to you. You can make, review, or update your will with the help of law firms like Bird & Co Solicitors so that you can leave your estate to help your children be taken care of if anything were to happen to you. Once you have this in place, you do not have to think about it again or even have to talk to your children about it as it can be upsetting for them to think about at a young age.

 

In order to build a bright future for your children so that they can enjoy success and happiness as they gain independence, you need to take action sooner rather than later. These are a few effective steps to take which will provide them with a solid platform to go on and succeed in the world.

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Ways to Keep your Child Safe When on Vacation

November 1, 2018 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

Ways to Keep your Child Safe When on Vacation

When you head off on vacation to somewhere nice and sunny, ensuring that you keep your child safe is clearly an important consideration factor.  Children of all ages will look at their adults to help guide and coach them on what to do in terms of keeping safe.  Whether it is the sun or well being you are looking to protect, here are some things that you should look to keep in mind.

Sun Protection

It sounds really simple but it is clearly extremely important for you to keep you children safe in the sun.  Between the hours of 12pm and 3pm when the sun rays are the strongest is when your child is most at risk.  Depending on the age of the child will also determine the level of protection you may wish to consider.  If the child is an infant then the recommendation is that you keep them away from as much direct sunlight as possible.  This can include keeping them in the shade or placing a hat on them.  If the child is a little older then it is important to get the right level of sun cream (or block) on them to minimize any skin damage or risk of something a little more serious.  If the child is playing in the outdoor water then it is even more important that water proof protection is put on.  As the water is cool, you may not realise how much sun you are actually being exposed to which can be an even greater concern.

Correct Clothing

It is important to keep the right balance of protecting your child against sun rays but also allowing them to cool down.  There is many different outfits that are suitable and specifically for the water you may wish to look at Folpetto swimwear options.  On the other hand, if you are going on vacation somewhere colder then you should think about the clothing required for this type of weather also.  Head wear is particularly important in these circumstances as this is the area where heat leaves the body the most.

Security

Keeping an eye on your child when on vacation is important to ensure they remain safe.  Whether they are at the pool playing or at the arcades, they are always at risk of something happening.  You may wish to do a little research of the area in advance to understand if there are any common security concerns.  Some areas have specific “children clubs” where you can look to then ensure that your child is watched by an adult.  Although this is more reassuring it is still not an invitation for you to let your guard down as there is still the risk of something happening here.

Do Your Research

Wherever it is you are going on vacation, you should do your research of the area and understand the weather, security and risks.  This is even more important if it is an area that you are not particularly aware of.  It is a good idea to also make sure that you have the correct level of insurance in place if something goes wrong.  If you are in another country and you need medical help then the insurance cover is specifically important to make sure that there is no hesitation in your child getting any help or treatment.  The internet is a very powerful source of information and before jetting off on your vacation, simply just “Google” what you want to know about the area, resort or people in order to help you prepare the best you can for your child.

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