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The Cost of Raising Girls

January 20, 2017 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

The Cost of Raising Girls

Most of us assume that raising children, whether they’re boys or girls, should cost around the same. Of course, the cost for parents depends on many things, including extracurricular activities, whether they go to university or not, and many other aspects of the money invested in raising a child. However, it seems there’s more to it. In fact, recent studies have revealed how it is in fact more expensive to raise girls, than raise boys.

Raising Daughters
“girl” (CC BY-SA 2.0) by Mariela De Marchi Moyano

Money saving website Couponbox conducted a survey to research the difference in cost for men and women (and boys and girls), finding out the variance of what we’ve come to know as the “pink tax” and the “blue tax”. They discovered that although men may pay more for certain products or services than women, women on the whole pay more.

 

What Is the Pink Tax and the Blue Tax?

The pink tax is a premium which sees women pay more for a product that is labelled or marketed especially for women. It may be that the exact same product is aimed at men, with only a change in color or packaging (women’s products are often pink). However, although these two are identical apart from color or packaging, men’s products are cheaper than the women’s. The blue tax is a premium where men pay more for a product that is similarly targeted at men, yet the same product will be cheaper for women.

Raising Daughters
“Daddy’s Girl” (CC BY 2.0) by MZPlus

What Do Girls Pay More For?

A simple example of the pink tax vs. the blue tax is the disposable razor. Men have a large range of disposable razors available on the market, usually set at a competitively standard price. Women have a smaller range of products available, colored pink and labelled “for women” – at a costlier price and the only difference is the color. Waxing kits for women are 47% more pricey than for men and girls’ underwear is on average 42% more expensive than boys underwear. However, men also pay more for a variety of products such as hair regrowth treatment, deodorant, certain items of clothing and a sizable 197% more for manicure kits.

Raising Daughters
“Girls” (CC BY-SA 2.0) by Ian Norman (Lonely Speck)

Girls to Teens

When girls are pre-adolescent they are not using so many products, so the costs really start to increase when they become teenagers. With the essentials of deodorant, moisturizers, hair removers and other necessary items, we also have the added cost of make-up, hair accessories and other beauty products. In fact, even puberty costs with the need for sanitary items and underwear. The pink tax comes into full expenditure as our girls evolve into young women.

 

The Cost of Raising Children

The cost of raising a child in the USA was estimated at $245,000 in 2014 by the US Department of Agriculture, and this amount excludes paying for university or college. The expense seems to be steadily increasing by 2% each year and includes food, housing, clothing, transport, health care, child care, education and additional everyday costs like essentials, haircuts and cell phones. While reports show that it costs the same to feed boys and girls, it appears that parents spend more on girls for school supplies, clothing and products.

Filed Under: dads with daughters, fatherhood Tagged With: dads, dads with daughters, daughters, father, fathers, girls

Dove is Supporting the Self-Esteem of our Girls!

October 7, 2015 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

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Dove Men+ Care has been doing some amazing things to work to support the self esteem of young women everywhere and I have to be come of the first to say thank you! As a father of two girls, the self-esteem of my girls is SO important and to have a brand that is stepping out there providing great content as well as videos that are geared toward parents and kids is amazing!

Here are two videos I wanted to share with you today!

If you want to follow along with this effort check out the Pinterest Dove Self-Esteem Project that they have developed!

 

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Filed Under: fatherhood Tagged With: daughters, dove, dove men+Care, girls, self esteem

Media’s Portrayal of Women, Sending the Wrong Message to Our Daughters

August 14, 2015 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

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As a father of girls I am always concerned about my girls’ self esteem. This video explores the Media’s portrayal of women and is a must watch for all parents of girls!

Filed Under: dads with daughters, fatherhood Tagged With: father, fatherhood, girls, media's portrayal of women, self esteem, women

Media’s Portrayal of Women, Sending the Wrong Message to Our Daughters

August 14, 2015 by dadofdivas Leave a Comment

victorias-secret-models-with-and-without-makeup

As a father of girls I am always concerned about my girls’ self esteem. This video explores the Media’s portrayal of women and is a must watch for all parents of girls!

Filed Under: fatherhood Tagged With: father, fatherhood, girls, media's portrayal of women, self esteem, women

Tuesday Talking – You want me to wipe where?

May 12, 2015 by dadofdivas 29 Comments

As a father who was an only child growing up I have to say that I was a bit out of my elements in regards to knowing much about what it meant to be a father of a girl (I still feel this way much of the time). When my first daughter was born I had to learn much about anatomy and what to do with this different anatomy so that they remained clean and healthy (let alone know where and how to wipe or other issues like that).

As a male you just don’t have to worry about these issues, but with girls it is a whole new world in this regard. The odd thing for me still is that even though I have gotten a handle on the physical grooming aspects of being a girl and how to help my daughters through these issues, I know that in only a few years there will be even more that I will have to deal with in regards to these issues and my world will be rocked to the core yet again.

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When it comes to this new stage in my journey as a father I know that I will allow my wife to take point on explaining things, but what I don’t know is if that means that I will have to have the conversation then about drugs and alcohol and/or sex or whether this will be a joint effort (I sure hope it is).

Isn’t being a parent fun! I know it is, but you definitely have some interesting conversations along the way!

Filed Under: fatherhood Tagged With: daduary, daughters, father, girls, parenthood, parenting, tips for dads, tips for fathers

Tuesday Talking – Daddy, Do I look pretty?

April 21, 2015 by dadofdivas 25 Comments

Daddy, do I look pretty? I mean what else can you say to this question, but yes! I think the first time any father gets this type of question they are probably as shocked as I was, as any parent thinks that their children are the most beautiful thing they have ever seen, right? If a father does not believe this then they need to truly think to consider for themselves what kind of father they are or that they want to be.

I believe that all fathers should be their daughters’ most staunch advocate. It is not for a father to criticize or demean a child in any way. In fact in my opinion, fathers who do this are not being fathers at all, they are instead being bullies which should not be father material!

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A daughters’ self-esteem is so much intertwined with their relationship with their fathers, for better or worse. A daughter looks at their father for him to be the man that they want to support, uphold and encourage them from early age on. A father also sets the standard for relationships that they have in the future, and how the father treats them as well as how they treat their wife will make a HUGE impact on their emotional well-being that will stay with them for years to come.

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Too often today our society shares such mixed messages with our daughters in regards to beauty. When they watch television (even from a young age) they are seeing main characters that look and act a certain way. This unconsciously teaches our daughters so much about how they should act, dress and treat others. The hard thing is that so much of what they are learning is not what parents want them to learn. I know that for me, as a father, I want my daughters to feel confident about themselves no matter how they look. Whether they look like what they see on television is inconsequential to me. What is more important is that they have the ability to be strong in their convictions and know that they are confident and comfortable with the person that they are and that no one else can ever change that.

This is not an easy task, but if you are a father of girls, I challenge you to set the example that you need to set and let your daughters know how pretty / beautiful they truly are both internally and externally as this is SO important to them in the long run!

Filed Under: fatherhood Tagged With: dads, dads with daughters, daughters, father, girls, self esteem, self image, tips for dads, tips for fathers, tuesday talking

Middle School Matters: Start Talking to your pre-teens about Dating and Healthy Relationships

March 29, 2012 by dadofdivas 39 Comments

How young is too young to start talking to my child about dating?

A new study conducted with more 1,400 7th-graders showed that, in this robust sample, an alarmingly high number of pre-teens are not only dating, but experiencing abusive relationships and sexual harassment.

 

More than 75 percent reported they had been in dating relationships. Nearly one in six had experienced physical dating violence and more than half had experienced sexual harassment.

 

Until now, there has been very little research on this age group and, though not nationally representative, this study is one of the few and largest in-depth studies conducted on this topic to date. The implications of these findings for parents are serious and reinforce that waiting until high school to talk about dating is too late. Middle school provides a critical window of opportunity to teach children about healthy relationships and prevent dating violence before it starts.

 

What can parents do? Take advantage of this window of time. Educate yourself on the warning signs of teen dating abuse and learn how to start conversations with pre-teens about what behaviors should never be tolerated in a dating relationship.

 

Be on the watch for the subtle signs of an abusive relationship, and notice if your pre-teen:

  • Receives excessive text messaging, phone calling, emailing or visiting with boyfriend or girlfriend.
  • Stops hanging out with friends or participating in family activities.
  • Starts having declining grades or missing school.
  • Seems afraid to disagree with his or her boyfriend or girlfriend; always does what partner wants
  • ·         Has injuries he/she tries to cover up or can’t explain

 

If any of the above are correct, your child may be in an unhealthy relationship.

There was good news from the study as well. Nearly three-quarters of the students in the sample said they sometimes or often talk to their parents about dating and relationships. Keeping this communication open and active is key to ensuring your pre-teen or teen sets healthy boundaries in relationships.

 

Here are some tips:

  • Talk to your children about peer pressure both online and off, before they are even in a relationship.
  • Discuss what it means to be a good friend, laying a foundation for healthy romantic relationships later in life.
  • Encourage and model healthy and safe relationships.
  • Use popular culture and current events to make teachable moments with your children. Ask them what they think about relationship behaviors that they see, and dialogue about what’s appropriate and what’s not.
  • ·         Discuss what a healthy relationship looks like, feels like, and sounds like.

 

These findings come from an evaluation of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation’s national program, Start Strong: Building Healthy Teen Relationships, the largest initiative ever funded to prevent dating abuse among 11-14 year olds in 11 different communities across the U.S. To learn more about how to start conversations with your child, and increase your knowledge about teen dating abuse visit www.startstrongparents.org, for free parent resources available in English and Spanish.

Filed Under: Guest Post Tagged With: dating, girls, relationships

Seven ways to empower women and girls this International Women’s Day

March 8, 2012 by dadofdivas 5 Comments

Today is International Women’s Day when thousands of events are held to honor the achievements of women around the world. Cindy Breilh, Women of Vision national director, offers seven easy ways for women to provide for daughters, sisters and mothers — women around the world, right in our own neighborhoods and here at home.
1. Save a woman’s life in child birth:
Did you know that in countries like Afghanistan, Sierra Leone, and Bolivia, having a baby is one of the most dangerous things a woman can do? By helping train local midwives in remote communities, you could save a life. Visit StrongWomenStrongWorld.org to learn more.

2. Mentor a girl close to home:
A growing poverty rate, poor-performing schools, and teen violence make it tough to be a girl growing up here in our own country. Reach out and influence the life of a young girl in your own community by volunteering as a tutor or mentor. Get connected at BBBS.org.

3. Use your voice to stop trafficking:
Human trafficking and sexual exploitation affects girls and women in horrific ways all around the world, but the Trafficking Victims Protection Act in the US Senate can help end the practice. Contact your Senators and ask them to renew this bill to protect women and girls, both here in the US and around the world.

4. Invest in a small business owner:
Websites like WorldVisionMicro.org or Kiva.org connect you to hardworking women entrepreneurs, waiting to realize their dream of a dressmaking business, chicken farm, or food stall that will help them provide for their family. Even better, when the loan is paid off, your donated funds are loaned out again and again to make a bigger impact.

5. Provide the ticket to education—clean water:
One of the most common reasons girls in poor communities miss schooling is the lack of clean water in their village. Millions of girls and women spend several hours each day fetching water—often dirty and dangerous to their health—instead of attending school. Give the gift of clean water, and open the door to education for a young girl.

6. Band together with like-minded women:
Whatever your passion for helping other women, you’ll do it better—and have more fun doing it—with other women excited about the same cause. National movements like Women of Vision can connect you to a network of resources while allowing you to grow your own local group of women who want to make the world better for girls and their mothers.

7. Tell the women in your life that you care:
Empowering women starts right in our families, workplaces, and neighborhoods. Celebrate this International Women’s Day by writing a note of thanks to that teacher who encouraged you years ago, picking up coffee for that new mom in your office who’s struggling to balance it all, or telling your own sister, daughter, or mother how much you appreciate them.

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World Vision is a Christian humanitarian organization dedicated to working with children, families and their communities worldwide to reach their full potential by tackling the causes of poverty and injustice. World Vision serves all people, regardless of religion, race, ethnicity or gender.

Filed Under: Guest Post Tagged With: girls, self-empowerment, women

Brave Woman ( @Brave_Woman ) Is A Great Site That Supports All Brave Women Today! #CBias #BraveWoman

December 27, 2011 by dadofdivas 22 Comments

What Is Brave Woman?

Brave Woman is a grassroots movement to shift personal and public perception of women facing domestic violence situations from a victim mentality to one of courage and strength. The ultimate goal is action to create a world community that

  • Supports difficult decisions involved in creating a new life of safety, healing and independence.
  • Is aware of the presence of domestic violence and its impact on families.

THEIR SHARED VISION is that every woman and child will have the supportive resources they need to live without fear in their homes and see themselves as courageous victors, finally free from family violence.

They are networking with international advocates to end domestic violence one woman, one family at a time.  Become a Brave Woman Champion. Take the pledge today and join other brave women in your area. Everyone who joins the Brave Woman community receives a free download of Jana Stanfield’s song, What Would I Do Today If I Were Brave and other sources of reflection and encouragement.


My Take On This

As a father of two girls I have to say that I completely support this cause and this organization. While the website itself is still developing the ideals behind the site itself are great and need to be addressed. I know that I for one have been sharing the online pledge with other fathers that I know of that have daughters as this organization does a ton and the potential for this organization is endless!

I have heard the stories of many women over the years that I would consider to be brave, I cannot say that I have known anyone personally that has been abused in this way, but I know that it occurs and that it needs to stop! The women that escape from this, in my opinion, are very brave, as they set themselves out to an unknown future, but they know that they deserve better, and they do!

I know that I want my own girls to be able to grow up and be brave, to stand up for themselves and to never allow anyone take control over them. I can only hope that I am up to the task to help them to learn these skills as they get older!

I highly encourage you to go to the Brave Woman website and take the pledge to support this cause, it is definitely worth it and you will be taking a stand for something important and meaningful!

 

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Filed Under: Collective Bias Tagged With: domestic violence, girls, independence, self esteem, self image, self-empowerment, violence, women

2011 Top Ten Holiday Gifts for Girls! (@timetoplay)

October 14, 2011 by dadofdivas 3 Comments

A few weeks back I had the chance to interview Shannon Eis from Time to Play Magazine about the top gifts this holiday season for Girls! I want to thank Shannon for her willingness to share her thoughts with you and hope that you will find this as informative as I.

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: christmas, daughters, family, girls, tips for dads, tips for fathers, toys

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